There are many ways to define life or there are things with
which we can compare to share the ways of life. Every way of life is unique in
itself. Some feel comfortable with the ways of life, some tries to stand
against it. But all leads to same result, birth and death. I am the one who
always trying to figure out the best possible way to deal with situations by
being optimistic all the times. But indulging in practices I do have limit. I
always try to outdo my limits. In the process, at times I got frustrated for a
short span of time then try to leave all things behind with new beginning. It
is the hardest thing one could ever imagine, leaving all the endeavors we put
in to achieve the objective. But everyone has to figure it out on it owns, because
you know yourself way much better than anyone else. I am not saying following
someone’s advice is wrong, but to practice blindly also makes you slave. Took
advice and then analyze it, so that it could be worth following. I am not a
teacher or preacher. I always keep questioning my knowledge every day as if
there is some other way to find out things, to change things according to me.
I am not sure why I am writing this. I am just trying to figure
out whether writing things could make you feel same way as If you are sharing
things with someone.
Through the knowledge I gained in these years, all I get to
know is, nothing is good and nothing is bad. When you regret something, you say
it a bad and when you feel good about something, you say it is good. Do
whatever you want to but make sure you don’t regret things later on. I’ve read
in Holy Scriptures whosoever tries to define a life is a mere fool. I am not
trying to define life, all I want to say life has its own ways. I saw some folks
who got frustrated with events in life, usually looking for guidance. Looking
for guidance is not a bad thing but to follow something blindly is also not a
good practice. I saw people going to astrologers to know the things in advance.
They think that knowing things in advance make things great and they follow every
ounce of their advice. Every human has the very same mind to guide your consciousness.
All we need to do is to figure out.
Here I am trying to capture all the ways to define life.
There could be a possibility that I might not able to capture all ways of life
near future. Still an effort to do is worth trying. Let me start with the very
vital way to living in terms of “LOVE”.
I was not a firm believer of love few days back. Not even
today, I am sure I still believe in it. Love is not a feeling or in other words
it is just a need to live life. We all are very aware of the things happening
around. Lovers practice things which make them feel regret and this regret lead
them to life they never ever expected. Then they name them, due to so and so
reason I am in this condition. Actually that is the dark side of human which
one always long to live but afraid to pursue because we thinks if that side of
yours come in front, they will become bad which is not true at all. We always try
to hide those feeling with some sort of curtain, we can say despised in love,
so that we could get a reason to do things. If you really love something or
someone, you don’t reason. And I don’t think love happens for a reason. If
reason is coming when you are in love that means you are simply getting into a covenant
with life, which in my language is not a life at all. Doing things without
thinking of reason are the things which could make you feel stronger and
happier. I am going to document some aspects of my life which I hold
responsible for making these statements.
Love a divine word,
other way of reciting GOD’s name. Love
is everywhere. The love of the parents for their children is a very good
example. Parents don’t reason to love you. They love you because they want to.
And they never expected a single thing in return. This is the true definition of
Love. In today’s date, love is just a mere attraction. And when things go out
of hands, we do things which you always want to do but feared to accept it. And
you make a reason of it. There is one more thing I observed about Love is that
there is not much difference in Love and obsession. Those who say can’t live
without you are just a deception. They are the people who are tired of some
other things in life. They try to fill in the space with someone’s entry and
when they come to know that things won’t go as they expected. They become weak
and end up with slicing wrists kind of things which is a mere shame to life.
So, if you love, don’t look for reasons to love. Love is a feeling that comes
in you within a second. You don’t need to search for it. It is the thing that
will come by once you meet the right match. But it is not necessary that you’ll
get same intention every time. You felt the Love, you expressed it, now it’s up
to second person to whether he/she wants to pay tribute to your intentions. For
Love you don’t need to go somewhere, it is always around you.
